I saw the below meme in one of my many FB groups and let’s just say there was some aggressive back and forth between the women and men.
I will say this, I have no problem going dutch and paying for myself, that’s fine – but I will NOT nor have I EVER paid for both of us on the very FIRST date. Maybe after getting to know the person, that’s fine. With that being said a lot of the women in the comments said they had no problem asking a guy out – and if they do, they’re aware the guy may assume that she is willing to pay for both of them, since she asked. A few of the ladies were a bit old fashioned and felt that no matter who asked who out, the man should pay.
Me personally – I feel like it’s 2019, a woman can ask a man out. I’ve heard from quite a few guys that they love when women take the first step and ask them out. It takes some of the pressure off them, there is no rejection, and the woman being assertive comes across as sexy.
So let’s hear it ladies have you EVER paid for the first date with a guy?? Or would you ever?
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